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Tic Tac Tic Tac... Another year will come to a close.. Glancing back at 2009 - a year which challenge my capability of doing things i thought i can't do.. Going out of my comfort zone, Setting aside my bratinella attitude, Continuously learning a different language, Accepting and embracing one's culture, Pushing myself to the limit - Gold's Gym Change Your Body Change Your Life & Work Hard Party Harder, Finding myself caught up in first time situations/experiences, Driving accidents which rocked my sanity, Meeting different people from different culture, Being a blessing to others, and to top it all, Courageously and faithfully loving someone despite the distance and silence - our one true love - GOD.
Half the world is sleeping,
half the world's awake
half can hear their hearts beat
half just hear them break
I am but a traveler, in most every way
Ask me what you want...to know
What a journey it has been
And the end is not in sight
But the stars are out tonight
and they're bound to guide my way
When they're shining on my life
I can see a better day
I won't let the darkness in,
what a journey it has been.
I have been to sorrow
I have been to bliss
Where I'll be tomorrow,
I can only guess
Through the darkest desert
Through the deepest snow,
Forward always forward, I go..
What a journey it has been
and the end is not in sight
But the stars are out tonight
and they're bound to guide my way
When they're shining on my life
I can see a better day
I won't let the darkness in,
what a journey it has been...
Forward, always forward...
Onward, always up...
Catching every drop of hope
In my empty cup
What a journey it has been
And the end is not in sight
But the stars are out tonight
and they're bound to guide my way
When they're shining on my life
I can see a better day
I won't let the darkness in,
what a journey it has been...
Should auld acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind? Should auld acquaintance be forgot and days of auld lang syne? For auld lang syne, my dear, For auld lang syne, We'll take a cup o' kindness yet For auld lang syne We twa hae run aboot the braes And pou'd the gowans fine; we've wander'd mony a weary foot Sin' auld lang syne We two hae paidled i' the burn, Frae mornin' sun till dine; But seas between us braid hae roar'd Sin' auld lang syne And here's a hand, my trusty friend, And gie's a hand o' thine; We'll take a cup o' kindness yet For auld lang syne Should auld acquaintance be forgot, and never brought to mind? Should auld acquaintance be forgot and days of auld lang syne? For auld lang syne, my dear, For auld lang syne, We'll take a cup o' kindness yet For auld lang syne
The song Auld Lang Syne, a tune that is
traditionally sung at midnight each New Year's Eve
to help ring in the new year. The song originated as a poem by ScottishpoetRobert Burns that was eventually put to a melody.
Joy To The World The LORD Is Come! May The Love That Came With The Birth Of Our Lord The Joys That Were Heralded And The Blessings That Were Bestowed On Us Shine In Each And Every One Of Us And Always
This Poem Was Sent By One Of My Online Tutor.. He Said That From The Time We Met Through The Language Exchange Site He Feels Very Lucky Because I Was Kind, Good & Patient.. I Was More Fortunate Because He Was So Patient With My Korean Learning.. He Is More Of An Older Brother and Sort Of An Uncle Than A Tutor .. He Shared A Lot Of Things About Life.. He Gives Honest Opinions.. There Was One Time When He Scolded Me Because Of A Personal Matter I Have Been Denying That And Refusing To Face.. =(
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김춘수
내가 그의 이름을 불러 주기 전에는 그는 다만 하나의 몸짓에 지나지 않았다. 내가 그의 이름을 불러 주었을 때 그는 나에게로 와서 꽃이 되었다. 내가 그의 이름을 불러 준 것처럼 나의 이 빛깔과 향기에 알맞은 누가 나의 이름을 불러 다오. 그에게로 가서 나도 그의 꽃이 되고 싶다. 우리들은 모두 무엇이 되고 싶다. 나는 너에게 너는 나에게 잊혀지지 않는 하나의 의미가 되고 싶다. ♣ ♣ ♣ Flower Kim, Chun-su
Until I spoke his name, he had been no more than a mere gesture. When I spoke his name, he came to me and became a flower. Now speak my name, one fitting my color and my scent, as I spoke his name, so that I may go to him and become his flower. We all wish to become something. You to me and I to you wish to become an unforgettable meaning.
Chinggu
HTH’s Favorite Songs. He Copied These Songs Straight From His Laptop To My Car
USB Last 11/23/2009. After Copying He Sang Along With The Songs. He Is Such A
Good Singer.
Artist: LeeSsang Feat. Jeong In/ 리쌍 (Feat. 정인)
Several title translations such as: The girl who can't break up, the boy who
can't leave; Girl unable to separate, Man unable to leave; etc.
Lyrics: 헤어지지 못하는 여자, 떠나가지 못하는 남자
heŏjiji mothanŭn yŏja ttŏnagaji mothanŭn namja 사랑하지 않는 우리 그래서 no no no no no no
saranghaji annŭn uri gŭraesŏ
(x2)
우린 삼백이만원 짜리 중고차로 함께
urin sambaegiman won jjari junggocharo hamkke 어디든 다녔지 남부럽지 않게
ŏdidŭn danyŏtji namburŏpji anke 팔짱을 끼고 한장의 사진에 추억을 담고
paljjangŭl kkigo hanjange sajine chuŏgŭl damgo 밤잠을 설쳐가며 서로를 알아가고
bamjamŭl sŏlchyŏgamyŏ sŏrorŭl aragago 내 꿈은 너의 미래가 되어
nae kkumŭn nŏye miraega dweŏ 우린 서로를 따르는 한쌍의 아름다운 새였어
urin sŏrorŭl ttarŭnŭn hanssange arŭmdaun saeyŏssŏ 채워져도 부족했던 사랑
chaewojyŏdo bujokhaettŏn sarang 다시 태어나도 만나고픈 사람
dashi taeŏnado mannagopŭn saram 하지만 세월 앞에서는 역시
hajiman sewol apesŏnŭn yŏkshi 서로의 욕심을 이기지 못해
sŏroye yokshimŭl igiji mothae 욕실에 홀로 앉아 우는 너의 울음 소리
yokshire holo anja unŭn nŏye urŭm sori 나를 쏘아보는 눈초리
narŭl ssoabonŭn nunchori 날이 갈수록 더 난 또 이별을 생각해 하루종일
nari galsurok dŏ nan tto ibyŏrŭl saenggakhae harujongil
** 태양은 뜨거운데 니 맘은 얼어있네
taeyangŭn ttŭgŏunde ni mamŭn ŏrŏinne 누구의 잘못인지 사랑하긴 하는데 baby
nugue jalmoshinji saranghagin hanŭnde baby 모든게 그대론데 우리는 변해있네
modŭnge gŭdaeronde urinŭn byŏnhaeinne 누구의 잘못인지 사랑하긴 하는데 baby
nugue jalmoshinji saranghagin hanŭnde baby
CHORUS(x2)
때론 너무나 바빠 너에게 미안해
ttaeron nŏmuna bippa nŏyege mianhae 지갑에 돈을 채우고 시간을 내
jigabe donŭl chaeugo shiganŭl nae 티나게 사랑을 표현 못해도
tinage sarangŭl pyohyŏn mothaedo 너와 함께 영화를 보고 밥을 먹으면
nŏwa hamkke yŏnghwarŭl bogo babŭl mŏgŭmyŏn 니 기분이 풀릴거라 여기던
ni gibuni pulilgŏra yŏgidŏn 내 생각은 또 빗나가
nae saengagŭn tto binnaga 거리를 거닐며 너에게 장난을 쳐도
gŏrirŭl gŏnilmyŏ nŏyege jangnanŭl chyŏdo 진부한 사랑 놀이
jinbuhan sarang nori 사랑은 한때 사랑은 이별과 한패
sarangŭn hanttae sarangŭn ibyŏlgwa hanpae 이별은 사랑을 데리고 가는데
ibyŏrŭn sarangŭl derigo ganŭnde
**
CHORUS(x2)
사랑은 한때 사랑은 이별과 한패
sarangŭn hanttae sarangŭn hanpae 이별은 사랑은 데리고 갔네
ibyŏrŭn sarangŭn derigo ganne
(x2)
버리면 버려지는게 사랑이라면 얼마나 좋을까
bŏrimyŏn bŏryŏjinŭnge sarangiramyŏn ŏlmana johŭlkka
(모두 꿈인데 니 손을 잡은 건)
(modu kkuminde ni sonŭl jabŭn gŏn) 원하면 얻어지는게 사랑이라면 얼마나 좋을까
wongamyŏn ŏdŏjinŭnge sarangiramyŏn ŏlmana johŭlkka
(모두 꿈인데 나는 벗어나지 못하네)
(modu kkuminde nanŭn bŏsŏnaji mothane)
CHORUS (x2)
사랑에 묶이는 남자는 약해 빠진걸까
sarange bukkinŭn namjanŭn yakhae ppajingŏlkka 사랑을 굶기는 남자는 무능력한걸까
sarangŭl gulginŭn namjanŭn munŭngnyŏkhan gŏlkka 비밀을 숨기는 남자는 나 뿐인걸까
bimirŭl sumginŭn namjanŭn na ppuningŏlkka 사랑 대체 왜 변하는걸까
sarang daeche wae byŏnhanŭngŏlkka
Kim Tae Woo
Sarangbi 사랑비 (Love Rain)
T-Virus
R&B
2009
Romanization
sa rang haess eot deon eo tteon i ga tteo na gan jeog it get jyo
mo deun ge nae tas i ran saeng gag i deun jeog it get jyo
na geu rae seo jap ji mot haet jyo o
i reon a peum jjeum eun mo du ij eur su iss eul geo ra
da reun sa rang i chaj a or geo ra saeng gak haess eot jyo
wae geu reon de it jir mot ha jyo o
geu jeo ha neur ba ra bo myeo oe chi jyo da si han beon na reur sa rang hae jwo
nae mam sog jag eun ba raem i bi ga doe eo nae ryeo o myeon
nae sa rang i meo ri e nae ri myeon chu eog i doe sar a na go
ga seum e nae ri myeon so jung haet deon sa rang i tteo o reu go
nae sa rang i ip sur e dah eu myeon neor sa rang hae ne ge oe chi myeo
bi ga nae ri neun geu gir eur tta ra geot da ga geot da ga geot da bo myeon
ba ra deon ne ga nar gi da ryeo
mid eum i ra neun yeol soe ro sa rang ui sang jar yeor eo
sa rang i ran gi do ro jeon ha neun jeon hwa reur geor eo
nae mam i neor jap ji mot hae do
geu jeo ha neur ba ra bo myeo oe chi jyo da si han beon na reur sa rang hae jwo
nae mam sog jag eun ba raem i bi ga doe eo nae ryeo o myeon
nae sa rang i meo ri e nae ri myeon chu eog i doe sar a na go
ga seum e nae ri myeon so jung haet deon sa rang i tteo o reu go
nae sa rang i ip sur e dah eu myeon neor sa rang hae ne ge oe chi myeo
bi ga nae ri neun geu gir eur tta ra geot da ga geot da ga geot da bo myeon
ba ra deon ne ga nar gi da ryeo
dor a ga geu ttae ro
nae salm ui dan han beon gi do haet deon dae ro
i reoh ge oe chi myeo
sa rang bi ga nae ryeo wa
neo ui sa rang i na ui nun e nae ri myeon nun e nae ri myeon
nae ap e ni ga seo it go
nae gwi e nae ri myeon ni ga da si sa rang eur sok sag i go
neor sa rang hae nae pum e an eu myeon tto da si haeng bok hae ji myeo
hae ga bi chu neun geu gir eur tta ra gat i tto geot da ga geot da bo myeon
ba ra deon kkum i seo iss eo
English Translation
Once someone I loved left me and I thought it was all because of me, so I
couldn't hold onto her.
I thought that I could forget this pain, that another love will come to me..
but why can't I forget?
All I can do is to look up at the sky and shout once again "love me",
when this little hope in my heart becomes rain and falls.
[Chorus]
When my love rains on my head the memories come alive again. When it rains on
my heart I think of the precious love. When my love touches my lips, I love you
shouting to me. Following the road where the rain comes, you'll see me waiting
for you if you keep on walking, walking and walking.
Open the box called love with they key of faith, call with the phone
transmitting a prayer called love, even if my heart can't find you.
All I can do is to look up at the sky and shout once again "love me",
when this little hope in my heart becomes rain and falls.
[Chorus]
When my love rains on my head the memories come alive again. When it rains on
my heart I think of the precious love. When my love touches my lips, I love you
shouting to me. Following the road where the rain comes, you'll see me waiting
for you if you keep on walking, walking and walking.
Return again to that time.. to my life like that one time when you prayed. When
I shout like this..... the love rain falls......
[Chorus]
When your love rains in front of my eyes you stand in front of me. When it
rains on my ears, you whisper love into my ears again. I love you when I hug
you, when I become happy again. Following the road where the sun shines on, we
will see us if we keep on walking, walking and walking.
Yeah ~ Once again praying for you to come back to me...
나의 기억 어딘가에 동그마니 숨어있다 울컥 쏟아져 내려오는 너 기나긴 하루 한번쯤 너도 나의 모습 떠오르는지
사랑이라 부르기엔 우린 너무 멀어졌고 차마 잊기엔 아직은 너무 일러 오늘도 난 사랑과 이별 사이를 눈물로 맴돌며 숨차게 너를 찾고 있어
바보야 어딨니 안 가면 안되니 너를 보낸 그곳에 아직도 난 서있는데 머리에 가슴에 그 모습이 그리워서 또 한번 숨죽여 운다 널 사랑한 후에
오랜만에 문을 나서 바깥 바람을 만지다 덜컥 다가선 외로움에 무너져 네 손에 끌려 다니던 정들은 거리 너 없는 슬픔에 잰걸음으로 집으로 가
바보야 어딨니 안 가면 안되니 너를 보낸 그곳에 아직도 난 서있는데 머리에 가슴에 그 모습이 그리워서 또 한번 숨죽여 운다 널 사랑한 후에
널 불러보다가 뒤돌아보면 그곳엔 널 닮은 추억만이
넌 아니 모르니 알면서 그러니 여태 잊지 못하고 아직 널 기다리는데 어떤 날 올거니 내 심장이 멈출까 봐 또다시 그리워 운다 널 사랑한 후에
Romanization
na eui gi eog eo din ga e
dong geu ma ni sum eo itt da
ul keog sso da jyeo nae ryeo o neun neo
gi na gin ha ru han beon jjeum
neo do na eui mo seub ddeo o reu neun ji
sa rang i ra bu reu gi en u
rin neo mu meo reo jyeott go
cha ma it gi en a jig eun neo mu il leo
o neul do nan sa rang gwa i byeol sa i reul
nun mul lo maem dol myeo sum cha ge neo reul chat go i sseo
ba bo ya eo ditt ni an ga
myeon an dwe ni
neo reul bo naen geu go se a jig do nan seo itt neun de
meo ri e ga seum e geu mo seub i geu ri weo seo
ddo han beon sum ju gyeo un da neol sa rang han hu e
o raen man e mun eul na seo
ba ggat ba ram eul man ji da
deol keog da ga seon we ro um e mu neo jyeo
ni son e ggeul lyeo da ni deon jeong deu reun geo ri
neo eob neun seul peum e jaen
geo reum eu ro jib eu ro ga
ba bo ya eo ditt ni an ga
myeon an dwe ni
neo reul bo naen geu go se a jig do nan seo itt neun de
meo ri e ga seum e geu mo seub i geu ri weo seo
ddo han beon sum ju gyeo un da neol sa rang han hu e
neol bul leo bo da ga dwi
do ra bo myeon
geu go sen neol dal meun chu eog man i
neon a ni mo reu ni al
myeon seo geu reo ni
yeo tae it ji mot ha go a jig neol gi da ri neun de
eo ddeon nal ol geo ni nae shim jang i meom chul gga bwa
ddo da shi geu ri weo un da neol sa rang han hu e
English
Translation
Somewhere
in my memories, you are hidden inside
you are pouring in my heart
on a long day just like today...
I wonder if you'll think of me as well
to call it a love, we are too far away
but to forget, it is too early
even today, between love and farewell...
confused in tears, I look for you
(it's been a while
how you been?
I had a favor to ask, can you play this tune?
It's pitch goes lower here right?
somewhere in my memories, you are hidden inside
you are pouring in my heart)
on a long day just like today...
I wonder if you'll think of me as well
to call it a love, we are too far away
but to forget, it is too early
even today, between love and farewell...
confused in tears, I look for you
Fool, where are you?
can you not stay?
i am still standing in the place where i let you go
in my head, in my heart, because i miss you
i hold onto my breathe and cry...
after our love
i came outside in a while, i feel the wind blowing outside
suddenly loneliness embraces me, and i crumble
with you, the street that you use to take me
without you, the sadness takes me back home
Fool, where are you?
can you not stay?
i am still standing in the place where i let you go
in my head, in my heart, because i miss you
i hold onto my breathe and cry...
after our love
after i call your name and turn around...
only a familiar existence of memories lingers
do you know? you do not know?
or are you being this way even though you know
i still can't forget and am still waiting for you here
when are you going to come
because my heart might stop...
i cry again in sadness...
after our love
아무것도할수없잖아 amugeotdo
hal su eobtjanha 아무것도볼수없잖아 amugeotdo
bol su eobtjanha 움직일수없어 umjigil su
eobseo 종일미친듯이너만외쳤어.. jongil
michindeusi neoman oechyeosseo..
숨조차쉴수없는데 sumjocha
swil su eomneunde 이렇게끝나버리면 ireoke
kkeutnabeorimyeon 너없이살수없는바보같은나라서 neoeobsi sal
su eomneun babogateun naraseo 사랑해널기다리잖아.. saranghae
neol gidarijanha..
아무것도할수없잖아 amugeotdo
hal su eobtjanha 아무것도볼수없잖아 amugeotdo
bol su eobtjanha 움직일수없어 umjigil su
eobseo 종일미친듯이너만외쳤어.. jongil
michindeusi neoman oechyeosseo..
An unending grace: UST’s countdown to 400 years set
The University of Santo Tomas (UST), the oldest university in Asia,
is gearing for its 400th year in 2011. At the recent press conference
held recently at the Rector’s Hall of UST’s Main Building, Rev. Fr.
Rolando V. Dela Rosa, O.P., Rector; announced the line up of activities
they have in preparing for their Quadricentennial Celebration. Together
with Rev. Fr. Pablo Tiong, O.P., Vice Rector; and Rev. Fr. Isidro
Abaño, O.P., Executive Director for the Quadricentennial (Q)
Celebration; they promised a different kind of festivity that will be
participated in by Thomasians and non-Thomasians alike.
On Dec. 18, UST will commence its countdown to 400 days to its 400
years. During its annual Christmas program called “Paskuhan,” UST will
mark a significant date in its history. The countdown will be witnessed
by the Thomasian community, alumni, as well as friends and patrons
outside the university. The Quadricentennial Countdown Clock, which is
a Swatch Beatman, will be launched, and it will count daily the days to
Jan. 28, 2011.
Also on Dec. 18, UST will launch its Q prayer and the Q flag will be
hoisted. The Q Song Writing Contest grand finals was held last Dec. 10,
of which the winning piece will be used as the Quadricentennial Hymn
for the Q Celebration.
Being the oldest university in Asia and the largest Catholic
university in the world, the countdown also meant a continued
witnessing that UST has provided quality Catholic education and has
continued service to the Filipino nation and the Church, indeed, God’s
unending grace. The Q Celebration has its theme “Simbayan 400: Tomasino
para sa Simbahan at Bayan” which according to Rev. Fr. Dela Rosa, has
partnered with Gawad Kalinga.
At the press conference, Rev. Fr. Dela Rosa proudly said that US
Secretary of State Hillary Clinton, in her recent visit, spoke of UST
as “a treasure.” He added that “UST is not just a legacy but a heritage
of the Filipino people.”
UST was founded in 1611 by Dominican friar Miguel de Benavides, who
incidentally, was the (third) archbishop of Manila at that time. Its
population has grown to more than 40,000 students, its reputation has
reached global proportions, and its distinguished roster of alumni
includes four Philippine presidents, six justices of the Supreme Court,
heroes, national artists, saints and professionals in various fields of
expertise. In the business, among proud Thomasians are the owners of
Jollibee, Century Tuna, Mercury Drug, and others. Award-winning
director Brilliante Mendoza, and Joel Cruz of Aficionado Perfumes are
also on the list.
UST, among other heritage sites, has its many firsts: Its Main
Building is the first earthquake-proof building in the country; the
first Olympic size swimming pool in the country; first museum, first
library among others.
In fact, the declaration of the UST Main Building as a National
Heritage Landmark will be on Jan. 25, 2010; also coinciding with the
unveiling of the restored 1911 Commemorative Paintings of the
university.
On June 17 to Jan. 30, 2011 is the opening of their exhibit called
“Lumina Pandit: An Exhibition of Historical Collections,” which means
for 400 years, the university is spreading the light. The exhibit will
feature the book of Copernicus, Doktrina Kristiyana (established in
1500s and now at the Vatican Museum, but they will lend it in time for
the exhibit), grades of our heroes (like our National Hero Jose Rizal),
and others.
Operas at the CCP featuring Cavalleria Rusticana and Gianni Schicchi
is scheduled on Jan. 21 and 22, 2011; followed by the Quadricentennial
Thomasian Personality on the 25th. The grand celebration of the Q
Celebration will take place on Jan. 27 via a parade from Luneta to UST.
On the 28th, UST has invited the Pope Benedict XVI to join their
concelebrated mass.
For the whole Quadricentennial year (2011-2012), UST has prepared
many activities that will end on Jan. 27, 2012, as the Closing Ceremony
of Q Celebration will take place. For more information on the upcoming
activities for the Q Celebration and how to be part of it, visit http://www.ust.edu.ph.
A Christmas Prayer
Loving Father, Help us remember the birth of Jesus,
that we may share in the song of the angels,
the gladness of the shepherds,
and worship of the wise men.
Close the door of hate and open the door of love all over the world.
Let kindness come with every gift and good desires with every greeting.
Deliver us from evil by the blessing which Christ brings, and teach us
to be merry with clear hearts.
May the Christmas morning make us happy to be thy children, and
Christmas evening bring us to our beds with grateful thoughts, forgiving
and forgiven, for Jesus' sake. Amen. by Robert Louis Stevenson
♥ ♡ ♥ ♡ ♥ A Few Months Back I Got So Addicted With This Song… Every Time
I Play This Song In My Car I Would Sing My Heart Out.. Hoping Someone Who’s Staying In The Bondocs Can Hear
Me…Aich… Whew… Now.. It Seems I Found
Myself Back On The Drawing Board... It Hurts Missing Someone… All I Can Do Now
Is Just Sing Along With The Song…♥ ♡ ♥ ♡ ♥♬♫♪♩ Going Back To The Corner Where I First Saw
You.. Gonna Camp In My Sleeping Bag I’m Not Gonna Move.. I Know It Makes No Sense But What Else Can I Do.. How Can I Move On When
I’m Still In Love With You ♬♫♪♩
Going Back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag I'm not gonna move
Got some words on cardboard, got your picture in my hand
saying, "if you see this girl can you tell her where I am"
Some people try to hand me money, they don't understand
I'm not broke I'm just a broken hearted man
I know it makes no sense but what else can I do
How can I move on when I'm still in love with you
Cuase If one day you wake up and find your missing me
and your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinkin maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on our corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving
Policeman says, "son you can't stay here"
I said, "there's someone I'm waiting for If it's a day, a month, a
year"
Gotta stand my ground even if it rains or snows
If she changes her mind this is the first place she will go
Cause If one day you wake up and find your missing me
and your heart starts to wonder where on this earth I could be
Thinkin maybe you'll come back here to the place that we'd meet
And you'll see me waiting for you on our corner of the street
So I'm not moving, I'm not moving,
I'm not moving, I'm not moving
People talk about the guy that's waiting on a girl
There are no holes in his shoes but a big hole in his world
Maybe i'll get famous as the man who can't be moved
Maybe you wont mean to but you'll see me on the news
And you'll come running to the corner
Cause you'll know it's just for you
Im the man who can't be moved
Going Back to the corner where I first saw you
Gonna camp in my sleeping bag I'm not gonna move
"The Man Who Can't Be Moved" is the second single from Irish band The Script from their album The Script. The song was released on July 25, 2008. The song has been used heavily for the CBS show, Ghost Whisperer
during its fourth season. This song is also their debut single in the
United States, gaining airplay on multiple radio stations. The song was
chosen as one of the soundtracks for the 2009 Victoria's Secret Fashion Show.
Our Birth is our Opening Balance! Our Death is our Closing Balance! Our Prejudiced Views are our Liabilities Our Creative Ideas are our Assets
Heart is our Current Asset Soul is our Fixed Asset Brain is our Fixed Deposit Thinking is our Current Account
Achievements are our Capital Character & Morals, our Stock-in-Trade Friends are our General Reserves Values & Behavior are our Goodwill
Patience is our Interest Earned Love is our Dividend Children are our Bonus Issues Education is Brands / Patents
Knowledge is our Investment Experience is our Premium Account The Aim is to Tally the Balance Sheet Accurately. The Goal is to get the Best Presented Accounts Award.
Some very Good and Very bad things ... The most destructive habit...Worry The greatest Joy...Giving The greatest loss...Loss of self-respect
The most satisfying work...Helping others The ugliest personality trait...Selfishness
The most endangered species...Dedicated leaders Our greatest natural resource...Our youth
The greatest 'shot in the arm'...Encouragement The greatest problem to overcome...Fear The most effective sleeping pill...Peace of mind The most crippling failure disease...Excuses
The most powerful force in life...Love The most dangerous act...A gossip The world's most incredible computer...The brain The worst thing to be without...Hope
The deadliest weapon...The tongue The two most power-filled words...'I Can' The greatest asset...Faith The most worthless emotion...Self- pity
The most beautiful attire...SMILE! The most prized possession...Integrity The most powerful channel of communication...Prayer The most contagious spirit...Enthusiasm
Life ends; when you stop Dreaming, Hope ends; when you stop Believing, Love ends; when you stop Caring, And Friendship ends; when you stop Sharing!!!
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Interested In : Friends Member Since : 2003 Zodiac Sign : GEMINI
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Who I Want To Meet : A Great Partner is Someone Who.......knows what you need before you say it.knows when to laugh and when to cry.truly listens when you have something to say.is there for you during the good and bad times.is caring.loves you with all his heart and soul.is honest.can be trusted like a sibling, confide in like a friend but most of all, love as the great lover they are.is open and responsive.is never critical and ill-tempered in respect to your needs.knows when things have to be compromised in the relationship.understandings listening is a key, but using what is heard is even more important.is there for you no matter what.is trustworthy.gives a shoulder to cry on.with a great sense of humor.has certain things in common with you.takes time to listen and enjoy you for who you are and tries not to make you something else.knows youre not perfect, but treats you as you are.listens with their heart and is your source of inspiration *a* **angelvamp**
When people fall in love, they do so for a number of reasons. For
some people it is because they are lonely, and they have been longing to meet
someone that they can talk to and spend time with at an intimate level. Though
they might have friends, they feel their life is incomplete until they meet
that someone. And once they meet that someone, they discover that they really
didn’t need that person. They realize that they can stand up on their own. What
they were looking for, they already had. They just never realized that. Thus
they fell in love for the wrong reason and once that reason is fulfilled, they
fall out of love.
It’s very easy nowadays to fall in lust and mistake that for being
in love. And once that lusting desire is over, you fall out of love.
Most people, who fall in love
due to chemistry and not commitment, are the ones that end up being in love
with so many different people time after time. As soon as the chemistry goes,
they fallout of love and move on to the next person they have chemistry with.
Chemistry is just the
anticipation of sex. It won’t last forever. When you meet someone new, there is
always the adrenaline rush, especially if you have things in common. Your body
identifies with that person and once you are relaxed and comfortable with the
person. Your desire to have sex with that person arises and that would end up
to be a one night stand or several nights stands depending on how satisfied you
are.
Making out with someone without having sex leads to a stronger
relationship because it retains the emotions. The body is always pumped up and
not fully satisfied thus the desire for more and more. The anticipation for sex
is even much greater thus you have stronger chemistry. But once you finally
have sex you release your emotions during orgasm. Each time you have an orgasm,
your emotions are released and the desire for sex becomes less and less.
It always starts off as more and more once you start having sex
with someone because your anticipation is higher, thereafter it becomes less
and less because orgasms take up a lot of your energy. Relationships that are
sex based have a shorter life span than relationships that are not sex based.
The other reason why
people fall out of love is due to their expectations not having been met. When
they fell in love, they had high expectations depending on what they wanted.
But after some time in the relationship they discover that their expectations
are not being met. Maybe they wanted someone who would compliment them and
appreciate them, but this is not the case. Instead they have someone calling
them names and disrespecting them. After they have had enough, they fall out of
love with that person and move on to a different relationship with someone that
meets their needs.
A lot of people are
rushed into falling in love by their families. You find they are always being
asked by their friends: ‘so when you going to get married?’ Have you got a
boyfriend/girlfriend?’ Or: ‘look at that cute guy’, ‘oh, isn’t that couple
lovely’. Or by stirring up jealousy: ‘John is so romantic, he sent me flowers
to work’. Or by reminding you of a day of the calendar: ‘February 14th,
Valentines Day’. Or by mentioning romantic movies ‘How sally met Harry’. Or by
narrating fairytales, ‘Cinderella, sleeping beauty, snow white’. These are all
stories of girls wanting to be rescued by a prince and fall deeply in love with
him.
So there is pressure for both men and women to fall in love.
The other reason why people fall out of love
is mistreatment by their partner. When they first meet someone he/she is so
good, so sweet and kind. But after some time they change and become abusive.
They either hit them or swear at them. The person then can’t take this anymore
and falls out of love and moves on with their life and find someone who treats
them better. Nobody wants to be mistreated though some people will tolerate it
for a while. But just because they tolerate it, doesn’t mean they enjoy it.
Guys especially, tend to be sweet at first
and later change into mean ones. These guys that do, that are already mean but
pretend to be sweet when they meet a girl and once the girl is attached to
them, their true self is revealed, since they can’t pretend forever.
But not all guys are like that.
In fact the majority of guys are nice throughout. Yet mean people make
themselves more easily noticed and appealing than nice people do. Thus if you
know the person’s ex-partner, you will have a better understanding of the
person. But also no matter how nice a mean person pretends to be, there will
always be a few elements that will give away their true nature but most people
ignore this. They ignore it until it fully reveals itself. Then they wonder
what happened. What happened is that you ignored the bad and accepted the good.
And that made the bad grow and grow until you couldn’t handle it anymore then
you got heartbroken or fell out of love and cried that the world isn’t fair.
‘The world is fair to those who play fair’. You can’t just ignore the bad and
accept the good.
And last but not least the reason why people
fall out of love is because they weren’t in love in the first place. There was
no commitment; there was just the idea. The idea of being in love seems awesome
but it takes work to stay in love. You have to keep doing good. You have to
keep appreciating your partner. You have to keep supporting your partner even
when the times are tough you have to hang in there and stick together and solve
problems together and enjoy victories together.
Being in love is so much publicized that a lot of people go into
it without fully realizing what they are doing. They don’t really know the true
meaning of being in love. They think of it as a candy shop, where you walk in
when there’s candy and don’t go there when there’s no candy. With being in
love, you walk in when there’s candy (chemistry) and even when there’s no candy
(chemistry) you still stay until the candy (chemistry) is back.
Chemistry doesn’t last forever but being in love does. Chemistry
contributes to the relationship being exciting, but love sustains the
relationship and keeps it going.
A loss of chemistry is normally
due to other commitments that take away the time for sex or a change in
appearance of your partner. All these can be worked out by spending more
romantic time together. The thing you liked about your partner at the beginning
of the relationship should continue throughout the relationship. Relationships
are about spending time together. Most relationships end because of lack of
this.
If people fall in love for the
right reasons and commit to it and build their relationship and keep on
spending time together and supporting each other, then they will stay in love
much longer.
People have different upbringings and thus different goals and
expectations. This is why when they first meet someone new, they want to get to
know them and see if they are on the same wavelength. The more things in common
you have with someone the better the relationship. Communication is the key to
any relationship. Couples that talk stay in love and couples who don’t talk
stay out of love’. Thus when you meet someone new you have to know them first.
Before there is contact of the genitals, there should be contact of the minds.
Successful relationships are based on trust, honesty, love,
tolerance, sharing and forgiveness.
Most relationship breakdown is normally due to lack of one or more
of these things.
